Related by law...

[muahaha... juz randomly had to type somethin... coz bout no updates hey... seriously... no time =( ... *cries* huibear]

Marriage...
It is like a contract which locks you into a deal with the one you love. Necessary? I suppose it announces a status unbreakable (hopefully...) and firmly embeds your feelings, care, love for one another, as well as the shared beliefs, values, attitudes.

However, if it was a second marriage with children, without a choice, they immediately become related by law. This is the part that amazes me the most. Without having anything to do with the marriage, without having a say in anything, you become immediately "related" to another person. No blood relation, nothing.

What kind of feeling... is this? I really don't know. I'm not sure if it's good or bad, just that it's intriguing. What would happen from there? What if you did not get along with the "new siblings" who you never grew up with, never knew... would it come down to an empty, lonely feeling? If you did get along with the suddenly-your-siblings, is everything then fantastic?

Totally absorbed into this "related by law" notion... I am not totally sure what my opinion on it really is. I shall try to find a conclusion... is it better left open though?

Hui Hui ^^b